Sunday, March 11, 2012

The Go-Nowhere Generation

" AMERICANS are supposed to be mobile and even pushy. Saul Bellow’s Augie March declares, “I am an American ... first to knock, first admitted.” In “The Grapes of Wrath,” young Tom Joad loads up his jalopy with pork snacks and relatives, and the family flees the Oklahoma dust bowl for sun-kissed California. Along the way, Granma dies, but the Joads keep going.
Patrick Kyle
But sometime in the past 30 years, someone has hit the brakes and Americans — particularly young Americans — have become risk-averse and sedentary. The timing is terrible. With an 8.3 percent unemployment rate and a foreclosure rate that would grab the attention of the Joads, young Americans are less inclined to pack up and move to sunnier economic climes.
The likelihood of 20-somethings moving to another state has dropped well over 40 percent since the 1980s, according to calculations based on Census Bureau data. The stuck-at-home mentality hits college-educated Americans as well as those without high school degrees. According to the Pew Research Center, the proportion of young adults living at home nearly doubled between 1980 and 2008, before the Great Recession hit. Even bicycle sales are lower now than they were in 2000. Today’s generation is literally going nowhere. This is the Occupy movement we should really be worried about.
For about $200, young Nevadans who face a statewide 13 percent jobless rate can hop a Greyhound bus to North Dakota, where they’ll find a welcome sign and a 3.3 percent rate. Why are young people not crossing borders? “This generation is going through an economic reset,” said John Della Volpe, who directs polling at Harvard’s Institute of Politics, which surveys thousands of young people each year. He reports that young people want to stay more connected with their hometowns: “I spoke with a kid from Columbus, Ohio, who dreamed of being a high school teacher. When he found out he’d have to move to Arizona or the Sunbelt, he took a job in a Columbus tire factory.”
In the most startling behavioral change among young people since James Dean and Marlon Brando started mumbling, an increasing number of teenagers are not even bothering to get their driver’s licenses. Back in the early 1980s, 80 percent of 18-year-olds proudly strutted out of the D.M.V. with newly minted licenses, according to a study by researchers at the University of Michigan’s Transportation Research Institute. By 2008 — even before the Great Recession — that number had dropped to 65 percent. Though it’s easy to blame the high cost of cars or gasoline, Comerica Bank’s Automobile Affordability Index shows that it takes fewer weeks of work income to buy a car today than in the early 1980s, and inflation-adjusted gasoline prices didn’t get out of line until a few years ago.
Perhaps young people are too happy at home checking Facebook. In a study of 15 countries, Michael Sivak, a professor at the University of Michigan’s Transportation Research Institute (who also contributed to the D.M.V. research), found that when young people spent more time on the Internet, they delayed getting their driver’s licenses. “More time on Facebook probably means less time on the road,” he said. That may mean safer roads, but it also means a bumpier, less vibrant economy.
All this turns American history on its head. We are a nation of movers and shakers. Pilgrims leapt onto leaky boats to get here. The Lost Generation chased Hemingway and Gertrude Stein to Paris. The Greatest Generation signed up to ship out to fight Nazis in Germany or the Japanese imperial forces in the Pacific. The ’60s kids joined the Peace Corps.
But Generation Y has become Generation Why Bother. The Great Recession and the still weak economy make the trend toward risk aversion worse. Children raised during recessions ultimately take fewer risks with their investments and their jobs. Even when the recession passes, they don’t strive as hard to find new jobs, and they hang on to lousy jobs longer. Research by the economist Lisa B. Kahn of the Yale School of Management shows that those who graduated from college during a poor economy experienced a relative wage loss even 15 years after entering the work force.
Perhaps more worrisome, kids who grow up during tough economic times also tend to believe that luck plays a bigger role in their success, which breeds complacency. “Young people raised during recessions end up less entrepreneurial and less willing to leave home because they believe that luck counts more than effort,” said Paola Giuliano, an economist at U.C.L.A.’s Anderson School of Management. A bad economy can boost a person’s weighting of luck by 20 percent, Ms. Giuliano found.
Notice how popular the word “random” has become among young people. A Disney TV show called “So Random!” has ranked first in the ratings among tweens. The word has morphed from a precise statistical term to an all-purpose phrase that stresses the illogic and coincidence of life. Unfortunately, societies that emphasize luck over logic are not likely to thrive.
In the mid-’70s, back when every high school kid longed for his driver’s license and a chance to hit the road and find freedom, Bruce Springsteen wrote his brilliant, exciting album “Born to Run.” A generation later, as kids began to hunker down, Mr. Springsteen wrote his depressing, dead-end dirge, “The Ghost of Tom Joad.” We need to reward and encourage forward movement, not slouching. That may sound harsh, but do we really want to turn into a country where young Americans can’t even recognize the courage of Tom Joad?
Maybe it’s time to yank out the power cords, pump up the flat bicycle tires or even reopen Route 66 — whatever it takes to get our kids back on the road.
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Todd G. Buchholz is the author of “Rush: Why You Need and Love the Rat Race.” Victoria Buchholz, a student at Cambridge University, is at work on a book about the neuropsychology of the teenage brain.

Contentment breeds stagnation.
I will keep that in mind.
Stay hungry. Be greedy.

Saturday, March 10, 2012

"People are always blaming their circumstances for what they are. I don't believe in circumstances. The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and, if they can't find them, make them".


~G.B. Shaw, Mrs. Warren's Profession, 1893

Monday, March 5, 2012

I’m tired of things improving incrementally through experience. I just want to achieve a symbolic success and then ride off into the sunset feeling like a grownup. The problem, though, is that sunset turns into night, and then the next day is just a regular day again, and you still have to cut your toenails and save up for retirement.

There are big portions of my life in which I forget that I am no longer 18. In these days, weeks, and sometimes months, I believe it is okay for me to fall unconditionally into deep thought and nostalgia, oblivious to the world and completely in harmony with my hopes, goals and state of being. But the world contains these built-in mechanisms to remove us occasionally from such states, and delivers into our unwitting hands some kind of shock that jolts us out of the complacence and contentment. When that happens to me a small kennel of panic usually unfolds, and I look around thinking, oh shit, where the fuck am I in life?

A mad scramble, and then I am back at unhappy square one, realizing that a year has passed and I have been with each day increasingly dissatisfied with the fact that I have remained true to myself. Isn’t it bizarre? I wish sometimes with all my might that I could enjoy more this process of doing and undoing, but I can’t stop myself from being over-analytical about the entire process. Am I doing it right? Is there something I should be avoiding? What can i learn from my mistakes? At the end of it all I find myself breathless, tired and incredibly pessimistic.

Oh why am I so alone in my thoughts

Thursday, March 1, 2012

Think Different

There has been so much written about thinking through the years that I hesitate to even try to address it.

“As a man thinketh, so he is”

“I think, therefore I am”

“You become what you think about all day”.

And yet it has been much on my mind lately. Several years ago I developed the odd habit of looking at things backwards or reversed. For example if helium is lighter than air then air must be heavier than helium. I say odd because at one point I was thinking about the speed of light and reversed it. What is the speed of dark?Odd thought, to be sure. Still, I have to say it has given me a new way to ask my questions and it caused me to take one more step in framing my statements.It should be just as true coming back as it was going out.

We probably all sometimes complicate our lives by logical thoughts that are just wrong.Like the story of the man who was running up and down the street looking for his hat. A friend stopped to help him look and eventually asked the man where he was when he lost his hat. “I was in the alley” says the man. “Then why are you looking out here on the street” asks the Good Samaritan? “Because the light is better out here”, says the man. Logical, but just wrong. It seems that sometimes we just don’t like the circumstances we will be in if we go with the best thought available to us. And, of course, the obvious is so boring.

I would have to say that we all get trained to think early in life and often it is not until much later that we question that training. It is similar to the dilemma many people face who think their parents did a poor job and then raise their children the same way. They did not like the training they got or the results it brought but they continued on in the same old way. I know that a lot of us find ourselves in situations that we do not like. It is very old wisdom that tells us that if you continue to do things in the same way you will continue to get the same results. By extension, if you keep thinking in the same old way how can you really expect a change? Because change, proactive change, begins in your thoughts.

How do you think differently? I would start with the opposite of your thought or emotion.What is the opposite of guilt? Innocence. We never walk around feeling innocent. We only notice that line of thought when we feel guilty. Why? What is the opposite of depression? Hope, or maybe encouragement. Rather than thinking about what depresses you think about what encourages you. Or better yet try to encourage someone else. Give hope.

This different thinking is not easy to do. We have been thinking in the same old way for most of our lives. I think we are mostly trained to look at the negative because we are trained to react more than we are to act. It involves a reframing of perceptions and stepping backwards to look at the whole issue from an alternative angle and perspective. What would happen if we thought about how to stay innocent in the future more than we thought about past guilt? What would happen if we concentrated on maintaining purity rather than on avoiding sin? What would happen if we thought about things differently?

I think things would be different.

Saturday, February 25, 2012

Every man dies,



But not every man really lives.

Thursday, February 9, 2012

The Art Of Negotiation

"Negotiating is a funny thing… when we believe that something is worth a certain amount we stop negotiating – Its our FINAL offer. I believe the second you stop negotiating with yourself is the second you will become what you want most. If it is that important – JUST STOP NEGOTIATING WITH YOURSELF!"

- Tara Costa


A third against the first,
a first against the second,
and a second against the third.